Your Resilience Bank Account

It is much easier to be resilient to your big and small challenges if you have a little bit saved up in your resilience bank account. Like a rainy day fund that you might use to help pay for a car repair or for that extra vacation, having some assets (whether they be financial, intellectual or emotional) in the bank will help you weather the worst of the storms. In the model we discuss in The Resilience Advantage, my co-author,...

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Oops!

My first mistake of the day was to forget to take our puppy Cody out for a last pee before I put him to bed at 12:15 AM earlier today. He decided, instead, that it would be better to pee on the carpet in front of his crate than on the carpet in his crate. I got to spend an extra few minutes cleaning up the mess before I got to bed. I’m sure this won’t be my only blunder...

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Keep Calm and Carry On

It’s easy to see how quickly our stress reaction gets kicked into gear. When the news was announced last week that a majority of Brits voted to opt out of the European Union, the media went into a frenzy, political comparison were made from one side of the “Pond” to the next, and everyone else was checking their 401K balances. “OMG” was screamed around the world even though many people had to Google “Brexit” to see exactly what it meant....

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Going For the Challenge

I’ve received several emails this week with suggestions for today’s RW which can most easily be summarized as Cavs=Resilience. While there are certainly no shortages of resilience stories in sports, this past weekend’s Cleveland Cavalier National Basketball Association championship merits special notice, but not for what you think. Most people will say that the Cavs resilience story was their unprecedented comeback from a 3-1 deficit in the best of 7 series (a never before achieved accomplishment) and that their never-say-die...

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Our Resilient Country

( I am repurposing a previously written Resilient Wednesday from last July and am striking out the outdated text from last year’s version and making the updated version in bold text. I’m saddened that I have to repeat this article.) What an amazing country we live in. Just last week this past weekend our nation’s ability to address the worst of us and the best of us came to the forefront. We were tested and will probably pass but we...

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The Champ: A Different Kind of Resilience

Muhammad Ali never much cared about what other people thought. He knew who he was and what he wanted. He transcended almost everything and his life from pugilist to peacemaker is a testimony to how his power of self-belief was transformative. I don’t believe that Ali was a particularly resilient figure as most people think of resilience with its singular focus on overcoming adversity. You could say, of course, that he was amazingly resilient in how he beat back opponents...

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