Stay Away from the Energy Suckers!

I’ve often shared ideas about energy management, which is a much more powerful concept than is time management. Time can’t be controlled and even worse, time typically dictates to us what we can get done. After all, there are only 24 hours, 1440 minutes or 86,400 seconds in each day and that is not going to change regardless of how we try to “manage” them. Instead, we want to think about how we use our personal energy as that is...

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Just Ask for What You Want!

We took a little jaunt over to one of our favorite gelato establishments last weekend as a little reward for some hard work. Entering the establishment, we were greeted by this sign that led us to take a deep breath and consider how we could enjoy the ambience and crowed as we waited in a line of 6 or 7 people to get our well-earned reward. Effective communication can be a powerful mitigator and regulator of stress, especially these days...

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Be the Athlete You Are

The Olympics are in our lives for the next 2 weeks and watching these incredible elite competitors reminds me of how many of us dreamed about performing on the athletic field and maybe even saw ourselves at performing at their level. Of course, 99.99% of us never even come close. What if, however, we just aspire to be the best athlete we possibly can be and how can our resilience help us achieve that objective? This past weekend I played...

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The Resilience of Family

For the past year and half, my wife Sheila and our 8-year-old granddaughter Kyra have been Home School Zooming during the pandemic. During their twice weekly sessions, they work on reading, arithmetic, science, and history on screen; they then move to chats where they can work on literature and creative writing, and then finish with the white board building some artistic skills. It’s a full STEAM session! Recently they worked on planning and organizing as Kyra wanted to make sure...

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Dealing with Stress in The Moment

Last week, I shared with you about the Resilience Advantage Approach of Preparation, Navigation and Bounce Back and Forward and shared some ideas about how and why preparing for stress is so important. Let’s take a look today at how we can successfully navigate our stress when it is actually happening One of my clients told me his head was about to explode (not literally) when he received yet another “change order” from his manager which, it seemed to him,...

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The Resilience Advantage Formula

Maybe last weekend’s July 4th celebration will help us turn a corner and begin to put the past year of Covid life behind us. We’ve certainly been caught up in the moment, panicking, it seems like, to make sure we are playing frantically and figuring out how we can return to work in some manner that creates a productive and healthy workplace. As I’ve written and spoken with you before, the ideas of the Resilience Advantage go beyond simply thinking...

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